If we’re planning to meet for the first time, please take a moment to read this page carefully. It outlines the foundations that allow our time together to unfold with ease, clarity, and mutual respect. These boundaries are here to protect the quality of our connection and create the conditions for something truly enjoyable.
Screening
This is a matter of mutual trust and discretion, ensuring that our time together begins from a place of safety, ease, and trust. Screening is essential and non-negotiable. It’s for my safety only, and all information you provide is of course handled with strict confidentiality and the utmost discretion.
You may choose one of the following options:
1) A photo of you holding your government-issued ID
2) Your LinkedIn profile, plus references from at least two other providers I can contact
3) For dates paid in full in advance only: we have a date with a minimum duration of 3 hours, and spend the first full hour in a public place. This will allow me to make a decision on going somewhere private with you once we know each other better. If anything feels off, or I feel unsafe or disrespected, I will leave and you are eligible for a 50% refund.
Deposit
In order to confirm our time together, a deposit is required. Your deposit ensures me of your serious intentions, and is a sign of respect for my energy and schedule. This helps us both to feel secure about our upcoming date, and to be able to look forward to our time together in the most stress-free way with the most beautiful anticipation!
Unless otherwise stated, the deposit is 20% of the total fee.
For dates that include travel and/or over 24hrs in duration, I require a 50% deposit. For FMTY/TMTY dates the travel costs are added to this, as I will need to make the proper arrangements to come see you as soon as our time together is confirmed.
Hygiene
Personal hygiene is very important to me! Of course, I will show up to our time together fresh and impeccably groomed - and I expect the same from my suitors. Just as with a normal date, we'll want to make a good impression on each other, and create the opportune conditions to enjoy our time and each other to the fullest extend during our time together. Good personal hygiene is definitely a part of this. So please show up to our meeting freshly groomed, freshly showered, and teeth freshly brushed (I recommend you'll bring a toothbrush, as will I. Especially if our date includes a meal, it will be nice to freshen up for each other).
Privacy & Boundaries
Please refrain from asking privacy-sensitive or overly personal questions. I will of course extend the same respect to you. Furthermore, it will under no circumstances be acceptable to take a foto or video of me. As you will have noticed, I don't show my face online and this is for reasons related to not only my privacy, but also my safety. The only possible exception on this pictures rule is when a picture is taken with my phone and with my explicit consent.
As a professional in this industry, I am fully aware of the importance of discretion for the both of us. You can always be assured that I consider all information with regards to you as confidential, and a such will stay between us. This allows us to create a deep and safe space together wherein we can enjoy our own little bubble. As such, discretion allows us both to relax, enjoy, and stay in the moment.
Cancellations
I understand that sometimes plans change, or life gets in the way. However, once our date is confirmed I will have kept that time free for you and a cancellation can be quite the inconvenience. Because of this I have the following cancellation policy.
If needed, you can reschedule our date free of charge if done so more than 48 hours in advance, if we can reschedule for a new meeting in the next 3 weeks. For cancellations less than 72 hours in advance, or if a rescheduling within 3 weeks (as aforementioned) is not possible, the deposit will be forfeited. A new deposit is then required to confirm a new moment to meet.
For tours and travel dates any cancellations up to 1 week before the date can be rescheduled, after that de deposit is forfeited. Depending on the duration of the travel date, a small (10-20%) inconvenience-fee may be charged in case of cancellation.
For dates that require my traveling to you by plane (FMTY) or train (TMTY) all in advance paid travel fees are non-refundable (on top of the deposit, in case of late cancellation), as I'll have already purchased my tickets to come and see you.
